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I have three best friends and i have a great relationship with them and we all understand each other. I am really to have those three friends who are really caring,understanding and each of them has a style of her own.
I really love them. There is one fact that there is one friend of mine whom i love like a sister. We both are really good friends and are faces match so much that people think that we are real sisters. The other too friends are also great.
I have no problems with them and i am happy with them. But one problem is there which is disturbing my life. My school fellows think that i am getting rude because i don not give time to others. I always become too friendly with people and they always like me and then they want to be friends with me.
But i already have three friends to give time. I want to give time to others but my friends do not want any fourth person in our relationship. Everyone wants to be friends with me and i like that. But i am really confused that are three enough or i should make more good friends but then it is impossible to give time to every individual.
And there is one thing that i don't want to be bad for anyone but i don't get friends with them then they will think that i am very rude. Can you people help me out in this situation?
Friday, February 22, 2008
Are three enough?
Posted by Sahefa at 2:20 AM 32 comments
Thursday, February 14, 2008
DISCRIMINATION !!!
I really had to write this post because the situation in my school forced me to. I am in high school and we have a right to be a part of every celebration that are school has.
But i am afraid nothing is happening like that in our school. As you all people know that Pakistan is in a big trouble because of the suicide bomb attacks and our school's name is on the top in the hit list. I don't want to mention the name of my school because you people will not have a good impression about it then.
So,because of those attacks and explosions;an entire team of civil defense training came to our school and decided to train us for different situations. We all had the training and yesterday was the closing ceremony in which the selected people had they perform a scene.
In that scene they had to show that if (god forbid) an explosion occurs in our school then how will we act upon it and i know that it was about be alot of fun.Whatsoever,we went out of classes in proper lines and sat in the auditorium.
After five minutes a teacher came and said hat all the 7ths should go back to their classes because of insufficient space.
Now just tell me people is this the way that juniors should be treated? NO! This is not the way. What happens if we are the juniors of the school but we are in high school and we deservered to be there. I really hate this type of discrimination.
We children have also found the solution to this problem. The solution is that we are going to have a protest in our school ti have our rights.
But the problem is that it does not seems to be right for me. Please if you have some solution to stop this discrimination then tell me. I know that you will help me to stop this DISCRIMINATION.
Posted by Sahefa at 10:26 PM 20 comments
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Sunday, February 10, 2008
I am what i am because of FUN in my life

I really wanted to write this post because i am really messed up. I am a kind of person who wants to be only her\his way. But i am afraid things are not going that way. I am being stopped to be myself.
People often think that i am in a growing up age and must stop myself from doing kiddish things. I am going to be 14 this June. Just tell me people how much old can that be? Its only 14. I just love doing the things which are full of fun and excitement!
Let me tell conversation that went between me and my brother
one day i was jumping on my bed
Brother: What are you doing?
Me: having fun
Brother: This is not your age to have this kind of fun
Me: But i just love doing it
Brother: Go and do some sensible things
Me: Ok bhai
Now is this the way? No its not.I know one thing that THERE IS NO AGE FOR FUN! If we stop doing things because of our age then there is no point of living this life. God almighty has given us this life for a purpose and if there is no fun in it then that purpose is useless.
I bring fun in every single task of my life and maybe that is the reason that i enjoy everything in this world. And if i am banned to have fun my way then what is the use of it. I know that by reading the topic of my post, you may fell that i am rude or i want things to be my way.
Seriously my intentions are not like that. I do things my way and i advice you people to do things your way and add a pinch of fun to your life and then you will fell that fun is the most important ingredient in the recipe of your life.
Posted by Sahefa at 4:58 AM 17 comments
Monday, February 4, 2008
Why do i like vanessa hudgens?

Vanessa Anne Hudgens (born December 14, 1988), also known simply as Vanessa Hudgens, is an American actress and singer. She made her screen debut in 2003 and appeared in the Hollywood films Thirteen and Thunderbirds, before reaching fame in the 2006 hit Disney Channel film High School Musical. Hudgens also began a music career and released her debut album, entitled V, in 2006. In 2007, Hudgens became the spokesperson for Neutrogena.[1]
I love her because she is really a talented teenager and has made a place in everyone's heart in a very short time. I am a big fan of her and she is an inspiration of every teen. Her two most famous songs 'say ok' and 'come back to me' became famous in a short interval of time.
Starting at the age of eight, Hudgens performed in musical theater as a singer, and appeared in local productions of Carousel, The Wizard of Oz, The King and I, The Music Man, and Cinderella, among others.[5] Hudgens successfully auditioned for a commercial and subsequently moved to Los Angeles with her family, with whom she is still close, namely Gina Hudgens- her mom, Stella Hudgens- her sister and Greg Hudgens- her dad. Not only is she close with her family but also her friends, namely Ashley Tisdale, Miley Cyrus, the rest of the HSM cast and her not so famous Filipino friend Adrianne Galvez.
Her television appearances include guest roles on Quintuplets, Still Standing, The Brothers Garcia and The Suite Life of Zack and Cody, as Corrie, a classmate of Maddie and London. Hudgens also appeared on Drake & Josh, playing Drake's girlfriend, Rebecca.
Hudgens' largest role among teenage audiences has been starring in the Disney Channel movie High School Musical, which premiered in January 2006; BBC News said that the film's success turned Hudgens into a "household name" in North America.[6] Hudgens and Efron had won "Best Chemistry" award at the Teen Choice Awards for their roles.[7]
Vanessa is a great singer+actor and i love her. The information i mentioned is the reason why i love Vanessa Hudgens.
Posted by Sahefa at 8:26 AM 20 comments
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
GET WELL SOON

It all started when when we were going for our games period. When we were on the way to the play ground we heard news that the teams are getting selected for flat race.
My friend was really excited to hear these news and she decided to participate in it. When the selection was going on; my friend tried her best to get selected for the team and we all were cheering for her and then suddenly there was a silence in the ground as my friend fell on the ground with all the wait on her arm. I could not tolerate her cries and i left the ground and then i don not know what happened.
Then we were in the class and my friend came inside with all the bandage wrapped till her elbow. We really felt bad for her. She was in severe pain. But she did not let anyone know that she is in pain but i could understand her situation and i helped her alot in picking up her bag and other things.
Today she called me and told that her major bone of the arm was broken. I was really surprised to hear that because no one would ever guess that it was such a serious case. The reason behind writing this post was that i want you all to pray for her that she gets well soon.
Posted by Sahefa at 8:19 AM 3 comments
Thursday, January 24, 2008
No Decision Yet
After writing the post "am i a burden" i realized that my fellow bloggers are my best advisers so i want one advice from you today as well. As everyone knows that i write down everything on my blog about my feelings and my thoughts.
I wrote this post because i cannot make a decision yet. I am studying in 7th class and will soon go in 8th. but i have not made the decision that whether to go in the science category or business. I decided to choose science and become a scientist then i realized that it takes a long time to become a scientist almost at the age of 30. But i cannot continue that long.
The second category is the business category. Choosing this may result in variety of professions. But many of my friends and relatives do not agree to it.
I want that if i decide to become someone i must do that and should not leave my career incomplete.
Today i am standing where my mind has failed to make a decision. So i want you people to help me out with the right and correct decision.
Posted by Sahefa at 7:59 AM 12 comments
Friday, January 18, 2008
HURRAY !!!

So finally my result is here. I am so happy because my report went so good that my family is also proud of me.
At last my heartbeat is back to normal, i can breath easily and most important of all i am starting to enjoy my life once again.
Getting god marks is must in my family and if you don not do that then that means that you are finished! I tried my best to get a good result and i got it. The credit goes to my mother's prayers, my studies and most important of all.......YOU. Yes people helped alot through comments and wishing me best of luck.
Thank you all of my visitors who wished me best of luck.
Posted by Sahefa at 11:20 AM 4 comments
Friday, January 11, 2008
Am i a burden???
The reason for writing this post is that i was standing behind my uncle and aunt and i heard them saying"do you think Sahefa would be a burden for her parents?"
I was quite shocked to hear this and i decided to ask my mother the answer to this question. My mother is just like a friend of mine and that is why i can easily share my views and feelings with her and the reason to this friendship is that i don't have any sister. I had but she died and i cannot share much of my thoughts with my brothers. They never give me the right suggestion.
Anyway when my uncle and aunt went i put my head in the lap of my mother and started crying. When she asked me that why was i crying then i told her the whole situation. Then she explained me that people often say this because they don not know the relation between a girl and her parents.
They think that it is a difficult job for the parents to take care of a young girl who is in a growing up age. Then my mother told me that it feels a difficult job but if there is a good relation between children and parents then there is no difficulty at all.
I tell my mother everything about me. I tell her what happened in the school, i tell her what kind of people i interact with.....i just tell her everything. My friends are not that much friendly with their mothers. Some of my friends have a heart for someone but they are never able to tell this to their mothers and i feel sorry for them.
Whatsoever i got the answer to my question and i am fully satisfied that i am not a burden. I also learned one thing from this situation that there should someone of yours from whom you can share everything.
Posted by Sahefa at 7:28 AM 78 comments
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
A week left

AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
Only one week is left. Cannot wait to listen my result. Every day is a cause of serious tension.
I request the visitors that whoever reads this post,please do wish me best of luck (i really need it)
Posted by Sahefa at 7:50 AM 5 comments
Thursday, January 3, 2008
Internet; a blessing or a curse?

Internet is another name of technology. It helps us to get attached to the modern world. Although almost everyone has a clear picture of internet in their mind but no one has ever understood that is internet a blessing or a curse?
Maybe my post help you people a bit in finding the answer to this question.
Children might use internet to play games and entertain themselves. Teenagers use internet to make new friends and collect interesting information and elders use internet to work.
Different age groups use internet for different purposes but what we have to notice is whatever they are doing is in a positive manner or not. For example we should see that whatever the game child is playing is good for him\her or not in the same way the teenagers and elders are using in a correct way or not.
I hope you people have got the point which i am trying to say.
Posted by Sahefa at 6:32 AM 161 comments
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
Recognize yourself

Have you ever noticed that whenever an important job is given to a person and he just spoils it then there is only one sentence on his tongue and that is"i can never do anything correct".
Why do people always say or feel this. They should recognize their inner talent and try to explore it properly. Whenever a person say that i can never do anything correct then that means he is showing his weakness.
I know that i am just a 13 year old girl but please people try to feel this thing. Try to recognize your inner talent,your inner beauty. TRY TO RECOGNIZE YOURSELF!!!
Posted by Sahefa at 11:17 AM 6 comments






