Friday, February 22, 2008

Are three enough?


I have three best friends and i have a great relationship with them and we all understand each other. I am really to have those three friends who are really caring,understanding and each of them has a style of her own.

I really love them. There is one fact that there is one friend of mine whom i love like a sister. We both are really good friends and are faces match so much that people think that we are real sisters. The other too friends are also great.

I have no problems with them and i am happy with them. But one problem is there which is disturbing my life. My school fellows think that i am getting rude because i don not give time to others. I always become too friendly with people and they always like me and then they want to be friends with me.

But i already have three friends to give time. I want to give time to others but my friends do not want any fourth person in our relationship. Everyone wants to be friends with me and i like that. But i am really confused that are three enough or i should make more good friends but then it is impossible to give time to every individual.

And there is one thing that i don't want to be bad for anyone but i don't get friends with them then they will think that i am very rude. Can you people help me out in this situation?

32 comments:

Asha said...

Hmmm... :-)!
It's really a very BIG problem...:-(!
But, you will get to know who is good for you or not over time :-)!
So, be friendly with each and everyone :-)!
:-)!

Sahefa said...

thank you asha!

Shruti said...

'giving time' to others as u call it is really not such a difficult thing.. 3 of you form a group. that doesn't mean u cant make more friends at all. being friends with more people is always a nice thing.. hope ur friends understand that they're only being selfish

Apeksha said...

:)I wouldn't like to trivialize their feelings, but your group mates are being pretty childish....don't they have other friends apart from you? Don't they communicate with other people?And what if you really want a person apart from those three to be your friend some day?Listen buddy get one thing clear in life....you always gotta do what you really want n what you think is right...don't let others,not even your loved ones,take your decision...coz ultimately...you will live your life...they can't live it for you right? n remember something...those who mind don't matter...n those who matter don't mind...if some good friends come your way,don't lose their friendship for the childishness of your close friends....n make the right choices in this regard...if they wanna keep you away from stupid people,then it really is fine...but stay away from negative peer pressure...
n ya thanx for visiting my blog :)
cya

d SINNER!!! said...

they are ur frnds just as ur sucha sweet frnd to them...but that dsnt mean u cant have mre frnds...!!!

one can always balance between frnds, family and relatives....

discuss the pint wth ur frnds...or things like this can create probs later...

Sahefa said...

@ shruti: maybe you are right.
@ apeksha: i totally agree with you.
@ d sinner: yes i think you have a good point.

tekybala said...

there should not be any limit in having friends and no possessiveness.. it's not good for friendship. behave equally to everyone... but a little more to close friends. make ur three friends to understand that everyone are friends to everyone. each one will have some good thing in them... there can be possessiveness in opposite sex. but should not be in same

Sahefa said...

hmmmmmm i understand

Alok said...

Be friendly with everyone, but beware of those who befriend you just because of their personal profit. And not being friendly with someone doesn't have to mean being rude to them. It's totally your choice, whom to accept as a friend and whom not to.

It is a bit childish on your three friends' part for not allowing a fourth to be added.

Sahefa said...

yup i totally understand you Alok
thnak you.

MY THOUGHTS!! said...

hey!!

i understand what u r goin thru!! but being friendly with every1 is gud!!u get to knw new ppl n smtym the redefine old relationships(in a positive way)!
atleast dats what it has done to me! also i m sure u an take out tym for ur new frenz n still give plenty of tym to old ones!
as for ur frenz im sure once they understand dat u r not goin newhr they ll accept watevr decision u make..........n who knws thay might become gud frenz wid ur new frenz!

best of luck!

p.s. thank you!:)

Sahefa said...

yup right!
thank you

SwAThi.... said...

U know i agree with Shruthi... even though u hav three close friends ,u can still be friends with others...and spend time with them too... u should give others a chance too.... who knows one of them might turn out to be ur best friends... Anyway all the best :)

Sahefa said...

thnx swathi

Ravi said...

Hi there!

This is Ravi from Bollywood Buzz.

Thank you so much for dropping by my blog and leaving a comment, mam :)

You've got a great blog too!

Take care :)

Sahefa said...

thnx and plz don't call me mam.I am only 13!

Ravi said...

Cho Chweeeeeeeet :)

That makes you, my youngest female friend, till date!

I've added your blog to my favs and now onwards, I would be a regular reader of your content, Sahefa!

Take care :)

Sahefa said...

thank you so much

Nabeel said...

I also have three best friends .. and I really haven't made any new friends .. well I have but not best ones. I don't need to you know .. the circle is already full.

Sahefa said...

@ nabeel: hmmmmmm

arvind1187 said...

there is no limit for the no. of friends u have..
and best freinds are not made delebrately/.... it just happens..

Sahefa said...

i agree with you.

Vinesh said...

1, 2, 20.. doesn't matter.
care for those who care for you..

Sahefa said...

So finally you are here. By the way thank you :-D

Arun Sundar said...

Friendship with ppl can be classified as being friends, being close and being intimate. Try to spend time with ppl depending on what class of friendship u'd fit them into.

If i read again, i find it insane myself! but still...:)

Sahefa said...

I got it!

Mansi Trivedi said...

More the merrier!
your friends will have fun too. balance it out.

suvaiba said...

hey i understandmake frndz wid ur heart not brain if you r goin to think abt frndship dn watz de use
frndz r aaaaaaaaaahh ur closest tedybears datz wat i feel anything u can share wid dem
so just chill

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