Am i a burden???

The reason for writing this post is that i was standing behind my uncle and aunt and i heard them saying"do you think Sahefa would be a burden for her parents?"

I was quite shocked to hear this and i decided to ask my mother the answer to this question. My mother is just like a friend of mine and that is why i can easily share my views and feelings with her and the reason to this friendship is that i don't have any sister. I had but she died and i cannot share much of my thoughts with my brothers. They never give me the right suggestion.

Anyway when my uncle and aunt went i put my head in the lap of my mother and started crying. When she asked me that why was i crying then i told her the whole situation. Then she explained me that people often say this because they don not know the relation between a girl and her parents.

They think that it is a difficult job for the parents to take care of a young girl who is in a growing up age. Then my mother told me that it feels a difficult job but if there is a good relation between children and parents then there is no difficulty at all.

I tell my mother everything about me. I tell her what happened in the school, i tell her what kind of people i interact with.....i just tell her everything. My friends are not that much friendly with their mothers. Some of my friends have a heart for someone but they are never able to tell this to their mothers and i feel sorry for them.

Whatsoever i got the answer to my question and i am fully satisfied that i am not a burden. I also learned one thing from this situation that there should someone of yours from whom you can share everything.