Friday, March 21, 2008

Its your life!!!


Many people give their life in the hands of somebody else which means that they don't make the decisions of their life by themselves but someone else.

I started realizing this thing when i wrote my last post. People gave me such helpful comments (thank you every one) and the most common point i noticed in most of the comments was' its your life. Enjoy it your way'. That really helped me in realizing that God has given us only one life so that we can build ourselves by taking making the most important decisions of our life on our own.

Whenever i wanted to wear something. I always used to ask a plenty of people and they used to give me variety of ideas. Which really confused me but now i have come up with a conclusion and that is that its our life. We should live it our way.

So i request all my readers that concentrate on my post and enjoy your way. After all 'its your life'

35 comments:

Asha said...

Wow...:-)!
Great yaar...:-)!
This is a fantastic post...:-)!
Even if you make mistakes you will learn when you make your own decisions you will correct yourself automatically and that's the last and the only thing on the earth to live your life perfectly :-)!
Hmmm....
Great post :-)!

Asha said...

In fact, Nice Post :-)!

Sahefa said...

Thnx asha:D

brocasarea said...

yeah.."its ur life"..but the golden truth of life is "parents always think of ur benefit"..this is a fact..they may oppose you in certain ways but ultimately they care for u...they don't realize this now...:)

Sahefa said...

@ brocasarea: Parents are a completely different thing. They guide you on every path of your life but i am talking about other people. Not the parents:-D

Tshhar Mangal said...

very well said
:-)

Sahefa said...

@ tshhar: thank you

rOhit said...

Well, the post written is true, absolutely perfect. You're 13 and you're thinking so much about LIFE! ah! I wont say you're kid n stuff, I can't understand what you face and live like. But lemme tell you, honestly this is not the age to ponder upon so much of 'Life-life' thingy. These are the days to LIVE it and not sit n analyse it. Trust me coz later thats all you'll do. And moreover right now no matter how much you tend to 'think', your perceptions will intend to change as n as you grow up. Believe me! :)

I'll you what, you should continue writing. Thats the best thing to do, but write more about your experiences n happenings around you about the beauty of things, and treasure this place as memoirs of your growing up days. :) rather than getting into questioning and analyzing life. The latter years are waiting for it, for now enjoy and love life as much as you can.

Just remember, for now no matter how much or what you think about behavior of ppl around or things happening in life, trust me all your perceptions will change as time passes. :)

Take Care Girl,
You've a long and beautiful life waiting. Just spread your arms. :-D

Sahefa said...

@ Rohit: Thank you for such a helpful comment. Yes you are right i should not write topics which are ahead of my age. But i don't know why i always do it.
I always write stuff which i think i am good at writing but people think that those are not my writings. They think that how a 13 year old girl can write such topics.
I myself don't know that why i write it. But somehow i write them.

Alok said...

Very well written.
I just want to repeat what Ashu said.

Secondly, This is your blog. Write what you want to. If this is what you like to do, please continue to do. There is no appropriate age for finding your path. The sooner, the better.

tekybala said...

Yep! you got it... It's ur life. Nice post...

Sahefa said...

@ Alok: I agree. Thank you
@ takybala: Thank you

gunj said...

v true...
in the end wat will make u happy is ur own brain n its decisions...use it!

Sahefa said...

@ Gunj: thank you

Ananya said...

U r absolutely right. Its our life and we should live it in the way we like to live.I m with u and agree with ur statement.

Ananya

BIG Omi said...

Hi buddy,
Great stuff,
your idea on its my life is totally wow..
You are an adept writer.
Will try to follow your ideology.. of Its my Life.. I will live it KINGSIZE..
tc and thanks for the nice post..

Ananya said...

Hi sahefa

I relate to you, do visit my blog, i have also written something like this on my blog.

Love
Ananya

Sahefa said...

@ Ananya: Thank you
@ Big omi: Thnx 4 givin me such a nice comment.
@Ananya: My pleasure

ayushi said...

Sure its your life,sahefa :)
But communication with others does give u a lot of new ideas, maybe on lines u havent yet thought of...
All I want to say is: listen to others,but do only what your mind can rationalise.
You are very young,and let me tell you that this is the time that you can use to hallmark yourself, to build confidence, that you will use in further life.

Solitaire said...

I guess this principle is the best. However, many times, people really do not let you live your life..

Sahefa said...

@ solitare: Ya that is what i am saying that people do not let you live your life but we should fight for it:-D

Sahefa said...

@ Ayushi: thnx:-D

Meghna said...

Hi Sahefa,
Lovely post and sooo true! We both r of the same age and have more or less the same thoughts. I realized this too when one of my frnds broke my trust! It's then that I understood that this is actually "my life" and I shld enjoy it!

Love
Meghna

Rohit Tripathi said...

Bindasd post sahefa, ya i belive it in too but as Solitaire said... " many times, people really do not let you live your life.. " but in my words Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live. keep writing

Sahefa said...

@ meghna: Wow we r da same age...cool.Thnx for visitin my blog:-D
@ Rohit: Thnx a million!:-D

vishesh said...

to quote myself "the goal is infinite, the paths are infinite, the ways are infinite, the universe is infinite, all paths lead to infinity."

Sahefa said...

@ vishesh: How can everything lead to infinity?
By the way thnx for stopping by my blog:-D

Girish G. K. said...

Thanks for droppin by my blog, I like your blog, its very positive and full of energy... i enjoyed reading it, i hope to come again
G

Sahefa said...

@ girish: Thank you:-D

Nirmal's Blog said...

man cant really believe from your words that u r just 13......lolz..
u have got a very good blog..

Sahefa said...

@ nirmal: thnx alot:-D

vishesh said...

hmmm...to explain that in simple terms...we are all part of the universe...now in away all of us are the progeny of the universe...so all of us have one energy...now that energy is too poweerful that you can call it infinity...now like good children we try to object and rebel and finally understand and become a part of the ocean...

Sahefa said...

@ Vishesh: I understand what you are saying. Thank you:-D

Niyara - Asian Rocxs said...

i agree soooooo much! even though i often need the opinions of others, i should do stuff my way!

Sahefa said...

@ Niyara: Thnx