Sunday, March 16, 2008

I don't get it...



I am a teenager and i am happy for that. But i don't get one thing and that is that am i grown up or just a kid. Some treat me like a grown up girl and some treat me like small girl.

I don't know why this happens. If i want to do something then people say that i am growing up and i should not do such stupid things. When i do some grown up thing then people say that i am still small for these things.

I don't know that how i should find out that i am a grown up girl or a small kid. I know its a very small post because i believe in writing to the point. I cannot write really lengthy articles. I write really less but to the point. I have done it even now as well.

So my dear fellow bloggers can you give me answer to my question. Which is that am i a grown up or a small girl.I JUST DON'T GET IT!!!

24 comments:

Tshhar Mangal said...

Firstly this pic is great.Compliments your write up really well.

And i understand your point,this is the best thing of teenage years,and in your case they have just started

Enjoy it
:-)

brocasarea said...

"To an adolescent, there is nothing in the world more embarrassing than a parent"....welcome to next stage of life!!!

Sahefa said...

@ Tshhar: Thnx for the compliments.
@ brocasarea: Thnx but to be honest i did not understand the message you are trying to convey.

tekybala said...

You are a small girl, having thoughts, and stuffs of a grown up girl. :)

Sahefa said...

@ tekybala: Really?

tekybala said...

yep it's true

MY THOUGHTS!! said...

:) hi!
its a stage every1 of us goes thru!
this is the stage whn every1 strts expectin you to start understandin ur responsibilities! n time whn we learn how to take our decisions! it confusin at first but u ll soon strt to njoy it! specially whn u make a mistake n can say dat after all u r still a kid;)

its a learning phase make most out of it! best of luck!!

Sahefa said...

@ tekybala: ok
@ mythoughts: Thnx for explaining.Do keep visiting.

arvind1187 said...

as some body said this satge is obvious for all kids...
just enjoy ur life...
i consider the phase u are in as the most beautiful one
:)

Asha said...

You are a very very very small gal...Sahefa...:-)!
There are a lot of things that you can enjoy being a small gal, so enjoy...:-)!
You will have an answer for this(your) question when you are really grown up...:-)!
:))!
When I was ten I never used to watch cartoons thinking I am terribly grown up but now I watch and enjoy...:))!
All you can do is grow up mentally, than physically, or in terms no of years or no. of feet, in life :))!
So, you are really a small, little, cute girl right now with a beautiful mind :-)!
Take care,
Enjoy Life...:))!

PS:
Of course that's such a wonderful pic...I remembered my hair in my childhood seeing that :-)!

Sahefa said...

@ Arvind: Thank you and i believe that as well.
@ Asha: Thank you but to be honest...that is not my pic:-)

satish said...

wel, i am quite not sure. sud i be impressed to know that you have these questions in your mind(and i cant really recall that i had this question wen i was 13) or be worried that you are thinking about more sophisticated things wen you sud really be having the times of your life?

Gud.

Joy said...

It's a phase of life Sahefa. Answers will come to you on your own but till then you would keep hearing these from people. You are big enough to start understanding life but still small to face the real world.

Joy said...

It's a phase of life Sahefa. Answers will come to you on your own but till then you would keep hearing these from people. You are big enough to start understanding life but still small to face the real world.

Sahefa said...

@ satish: Thnx
@ joy: I totally understand. Thnx.

brocasarea said...

@ sahefa

thank you!:)

Sahefa said...

my pleasure:D

Alok said...

Haha!

Enjoy your teenage as much as you can, and don't worry about growing up, as that happens automatically.

Just stay focused, learn more about yourself and learn from everyday experiences. Do not worry how others treat you.

As someone said on my blog, life is a huge party, and I think you should enjoy the party while it starts, isn't it?

Sahefa said...

I totally understand you.
thnx:D

Nilesh Sawant said...

do what you think is right...
i no the sentence is a bit heavy ..but at your age ...no 1s goin to punish you that much even if you screw something up...believe you me...been there loads...
and i'd go with alok on this 1...
do not think of what others are thinking of you...the moment you do that ...ull loose ur individuality..

and thanks for commenting on my blog....
cheers..

Sahefa said...

@ nilesh: Your comment was really helpful...thnx:D

Aditi ''Jiggs'' said...

heyaa

ur 13 right ???

well i am 20 n still dont have the answer to ur question :D:D
enjy life as it comes ull grow up some day or may be not
but enjy the journey :D

cheers

pricelessjunk said...

Hey ! Firstly, you've got a very sweet blog here :)

Coming to the post, I felt the same way when I was 13. So did all my friends.

Teenage life is complex. We undergo so many changes in our thought process. Whatever happens, we should just go out and have fun ! We'll never get this kindda freedom again in our lives. So live life king size 'n stay happy!

Cheers !! :)

Cybele said...

Interesting to know.